So alhamdulillah I woke up without hearing my mom's voice today. Alhamdulillah. It happens that to set the aircond to switch off around 3am is working, if you want to wake up early before babu. Bukan apa, it's because tani rasa inda selesa sal kepanasan. *yang calinya, majal jua lakat kan tidur atu. aish*
Today is my beloved one's birthday. She's a Korean freak. Yet she's a pintar, kind BIG heart and mukhkhuha shaghghaal and has ended her pembelajaran di Universiti Al-Azhar dalam jurusan Aqidah Falsafah. Four years straight! Bismillah masha Allah. People say it's the toughest course.
Semoga Allah kurniakan kebaikan yang berterusan, dibukakan pintu yang selama ani ditunggu-tunggu, dikurniakan mahabbah dan ma'rifat yg sempurna, dikurniakan hati yg BESAR lagi dan lebih luas untuk menampung isi yang lebih besar dan luas dari sebelum ani, kesabaran yang tinggi lagi, diberkati umurnya, diistifadahkan ilmunya, hormat orang tua dan suami. Insha Allah khayr.
Happy 23rd birthday, SiKiyute! I am not a good one for you. But I'll try to be the best. You deserve better. Bittaufiq wannajah in whatever you do. La haula wa la quwwata illa biLlah al-'aliyyi al-'aziim.
Anyhow, after we had our breakfast, washed the dishes as usual, I got upstairs - and on my way to the room I opened the windows in the stairs to let the fresh air in - in my room I go in and sit in front of the laptop as usual. I saw this video. Was just merely looking at it .. And I clicked to watch it.
Click it and watch it first.
SubhanaLlah, the woman who was semi-naked said,
Yaaaah, seriously, this is quite a shock to me! I've never thought of this before. Being in Brunei with the adat and being surrounded by the people who always talk about this baju and that baju, this color that color, this fashion and that fashion. Just wanting to look great and beautiful in front of others. This indeed is not pleasing. And we're being in the prison of wanting the people look at us and praise us for our external beauty and pay less attention to the inner beauty. THAT makes us want more and more. This is how the women are told to do. to being to attract a mass of men. What is it for? Just for mere pujian? Well, unfortunately, yes. And some other answers, 'Tani mau jua kan jadi lawa. Supaya dapat nyamankan ati.'
Ganya, mungkin dalam negeri kitani lain kali sedikit. Pakai baju kurung ani satu kebiasaan dan adat Brunei dari zaman berzaman. Jadi inda mendatangkan masalah.
Tapiiii..
Fesyen-fesyen yang sekarang ani yang inda. Bercampur adat kitani dengan adat Barat yang kurang islamik. Fesyen baru adalah suatu benda yang mendatang. Bisai sudah baju kurung kitani yang dari daulu atu, lunggar. Inda menampakkan bentuk tubuh. Menjaga bini-bini. Jadi bagiku, pakai baju kurung atau jubah bekaler-kaler tu insha Allah okay. As long as tani menjaga kehormatan tani.
Pada masa yang sama,
Sedih ku jua. Sekarang ani, mungkin pasal pengaruh TV yang membuatkan kami bini-bini inginkan menarik perhatian orang lain. (Kah tu?) Lagi banyak nampak bentuk badan, lagi menarik di mata urang. Atau palingpun, membayang. Hayyoohh, perasan inda perasan, kalau bekait dengan nampak bentuk badan, bukan maknanya ia membuatkan urang tebayangkan urang yang diliatnya atu dalam ruangan yang inda sepatutnya kah? I know berlapik kalamku, tapi aku harap tebayang maksud yang ku sampaikan.
Seriously, aku baru tefikir pasal benda ani. Allah, aku bukanlah hambaMu yang baik. Tapi aku mencuba dan mencuba walau berkali-kali ku jatuh.
Ani dari segi syariat.
Apa-apa pun, hati tetap mesti jaga. If you have that some thing in you yang berharga, suka bersedekah contohnya, or suka husnuzzon, work on it.
Semuanya dari Allah. Allah Ghafour, Allah Raheem, Allah Wadoud but at the same time Allah 'Adil, Allah syadeedul 'Iqob.
Allahumma fahhimna 'anka.
Aingteh,
11.50am, Darul Faizien
Today is my beloved one's birthday. She's a Korean freak. Yet she's a pintar, kind BIG heart and mukhkhuha shaghghaal and has ended her pembelajaran di Universiti Al-Azhar dalam jurusan Aqidah Falsafah. Four years straight! Bismillah masha Allah. People say it's the toughest course.
Semoga Allah kurniakan kebaikan yang berterusan, dibukakan pintu yang selama ani ditunggu-tunggu, dikurniakan mahabbah dan ma'rifat yg sempurna, dikurniakan hati yg BESAR lagi dan lebih luas untuk menampung isi yang lebih besar dan luas dari sebelum ani, kesabaran yang tinggi lagi, diberkati umurnya, diistifadahkan ilmunya, hormat orang tua dan suami. Insha Allah khayr.
Happy 23rd birthday, SiKiyute! I am not a good one for you. But I'll try to be the best. You deserve better. Bittaufiq wannajah in whatever you do. La haula wa la quwwata illa biLlah al-'aliyyi al-'aziim.
Anyhow, after we had our breakfast, washed the dishes as usual, I got upstairs - and on my way to the room I opened the windows in the stairs to let the fresh air in - in my room I go in and sit in front of the laptop as usual. I saw this video. Was just merely looking at it .. And I clicked to watch it.
Click it and watch it first.
SubhanaLlah, the woman who was semi-naked said,
"Islam has liberated me from being a person who cannot leave the home without being half an hour infront of the mirror, without spending on different types of designer clothing.
Islam has liberated me and I just put on a black cloak and I walk out. That's it.."
Yaaaah, seriously, this is quite a shock to me! I've never thought of this before. Being in Brunei with the adat and being surrounded by the people who always talk about this baju and that baju, this color that color, this fashion and that fashion. Just wanting to look great and beautiful in front of others. This indeed is not pleasing. And we're being in the prison of wanting the people look at us and praise us for our external beauty and pay less attention to the inner beauty. THAT makes us want more and more. This is how the women are told to do. to being to attract a mass of men. What is it for? Just for mere pujian? Well, unfortunately, yes. And some other answers, 'Tani mau jua kan jadi lawa. Supaya dapat nyamankan ati.'
Ganya, mungkin dalam negeri kitani lain kali sedikit. Pakai baju kurung ani satu kebiasaan dan adat Brunei dari zaman berzaman. Jadi inda mendatangkan masalah.
Tapiiii..
Fesyen-fesyen yang sekarang ani yang inda. Bercampur adat kitani dengan adat Barat yang kurang islamik. Fesyen baru adalah suatu benda yang mendatang. Bisai sudah baju kurung kitani yang dari daulu atu, lunggar. Inda menampakkan bentuk tubuh. Menjaga bini-bini. Jadi bagiku, pakai baju kurung atau jubah bekaler-kaler tu insha Allah okay. As long as tani menjaga kehormatan tani.
Pada masa yang sama,
Sedih ku jua. Sekarang ani, mungkin pasal pengaruh TV yang membuatkan kami bini-bini inginkan menarik perhatian orang lain. (Kah tu?) Lagi banyak nampak bentuk badan, lagi menarik di mata urang. Atau palingpun, membayang. Hayyoohh, perasan inda perasan, kalau bekait dengan nampak bentuk badan, bukan maknanya ia membuatkan urang tebayangkan urang yang diliatnya atu dalam ruangan yang inda sepatutnya kah? I know berlapik kalamku, tapi aku harap tebayang maksud yang ku sampaikan.
Seriously, aku baru tefikir pasal benda ani. Allah, aku bukanlah hambaMu yang baik. Tapi aku mencuba dan mencuba walau berkali-kali ku jatuh.
Ani dari segi syariat.
Apa-apa pun, hati tetap mesti jaga. If you have that some thing in you yang berharga, suka bersedekah contohnya, or suka husnuzzon, work on it.
Semuanya dari Allah. Allah Ghafour, Allah Raheem, Allah Wadoud but at the same time Allah 'Adil, Allah syadeedul 'Iqob.
Allahumma fahhimna 'anka.
Aingteh,
11.50am, Darul Faizien
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